The Reason for MY Blog

There have been some comments left on some of my posts that have been less than complimentary of my blog or more in regards to my attitude towards my husband in specific. I have had to think about what they have said and why it is that I have this blog. The one reason why I choose to write what I do as a blog is because if I need to vent I get the satisfaction that someone somewhere heard me. Even if I don't know who that person is. An online diary is something I am just not interested in. Also for example as with the scams if I have a problem I can post it and invite comments to help me with dealing with it. It is the unwanted advice I have been known to have a problem with and I am trying to not take them personally.

But the one main compelling reason why I write this blog is because it is MY blog. I do not write it for someone else. I write it for me and I have chosen to do it in an anonymous style as possible. Yes I know some friend and even some family read my blog. Heck, I suspect that my Mother-in-Law reads my blog. But the one thing I have to consider when I write my blogs is how much do I reveal of my personal life. Believe me that has been a tough decision. And I have decided that some things are just not meant to be discussed, such as our love life or just how much money we do get in or spend. I specifically try to keep any references neutral. That doesn't mean I can't complain about them sometimes. It is also why I specifically use pseudonyms or knicknames for anyone I mention here.

The main thing I have concluded is that yes maybe I have gone too far in some of the things I have said. But at the same time I make no apologies for what has been said because everything I stated or ranted or Vented about was real at the time and needed to be said. Yes, I will admit that in some cases some of blogs have been sympathy pleas and what I find amusing is not necessarily what others may find amusing. Okay so live and let live. What I don't like is when some anonymous person challenges me to something that I have already been working on in real life and thinking they can guilt me into changing my writing style. My blog is my blog! It's that simple. Thank you for listening to my vent once again.